Alright! I promised I'd be back today and here I am! My head is cleared and I have a better idea of what I want from this blog. Part of that involved clearing out some content and other things, namely the contact form. I got so much miscellaneous email, it got to be kind of a bummer (some of it was great, the rest... not so much). I'll put it back eventually but I kind of need to blog inside my own bubble right now.
Some things to note:
1. I'm giving up on making this blog 100% about clothes. I can't do it anymore. Every time I thought of something non-clothing related I wanted to write about, I got sad because I felt like it was deviating from the main topic and no one would want to read it. Tough titties. I'm writing about whatever I want now. If you don't like it, too bad.
2. I might write a lot, or a little, or not at all, or too much. The worst thing about having a blog is the constant anxiety that you're not doing it right. I'm giving up on doing it right. When I try to do it right, I end up not doing it at all. I've been blogging for over ten years (yes, really) so if I haven't figured out how to do it right by now, I probably never will and I might as well have fun instead.
3. The #1 thing people tell me they want to see more of on this blog is pictures of me. I get it, people like to see pictures of real women wearing clothes. The thing is, I'm not photogenic at all (no, really). I'll try to post more pictures but if you want to know what I'm wearing it's pretty much always PJ pants and a tank top or jeans, a tank top, and a hoodie. I work from home!
4. My dog is awesome and adorable and she's much more photogenic than I am. I hope you like pictures of dogs.
5. That's all. Leave a comment and say hello.



Welcome back! I, for one, am glad you're back, and that you'll be writing about more than clothes. Not that clothes aren't great, but you're more than just someone with good fashion sense. I look forward to all your posts- including dog pictures :)
Posted by: Skinnyemmie | May 17, 2010 at 08:00 AM
Hi! I'm glad you're back too. Good luck to you going forward. I'm sure the blog is going to be great. :-)
Posted by: CTJen | May 17, 2010 at 08:16 AM
welcome back!
Posted by: amanda lynn | May 17, 2010 at 09:03 AM
I understand your frustrations. I've had my blog about 1.5 years now and I initially wanted it to be about marketing. Then photos. Then fashion. Then opinions. Then politics. I spent so much time worrying about what 'type' of blog I had that I never blogged. When I let go, I was fine. I write and post what I want when I want and don't feel guilty about it either way. Best to you.
Posted by: Tania | May 17, 2010 at 09:08 AM
I am glad you're back! I told myself when I started my blog that even though it would focus on fashion, that I wouldn't restrict myself to fashion only. I can post whatever I darn well please! It's my blog, after all. I'm glad you feel the same way. It's liberating, really!
Loving The Reflection
Posted by: Courtney | May 17, 2010 at 10:40 AM
Glad your Back. You and Mc Author kept your promise, or was it The Terminator?
Anyway Dog Pics are great. I personally Hate the Camera. And Photography is my Line of Work before I retired.
Be true to yourself. Life's too short.
Posted by: Steved | May 17, 2010 at 11:13 AM
Hi! I found your blog during your hiatus and subscribed because you said you'd be back and I was interested to see what "back" would mean. I've been blogging forever too, and I'm still not sure how to do it right. I think that's okay. And now that I have a new puppy of my own, I suddenly love pictures of dogs. Weird.
Posted by: Amy | May 17, 2010 at 12:03 PM
Welcome back! Good luck. I look forward to reading no matter what you talk about!
Posted by: Zu | May 17, 2010 at 12:11 PM
My first time at your blog; missed out on the original but glad I found you as you were getting back to the keyboard. Looking forward to getting to know you and probably your other readers. :)
And I LOVE dog pictures. I have three myself (dogs, not pictures ;).
Posted by: Lori | May 17, 2010 at 12:53 PM
Glad you are back - I missed this blog (no matter what you're writing about). Now that I got my chug puppy Maggie, I suddenly love pictures of cute pups! Imagine that...
Take care and I look forward to reading your new revamped blog!
Cheers,
Ashley (and Maggie!)
Posted by: Ashley G | May 17, 2010 at 02:14 PM
I'm so glad you're back. Your blog/website was super helpful to me. And like many of the other commenters, I am also a proud mom of a dog and love dog pictures.
I am wondering if you would be interested in posting other women's photos. I bought some tights you recommended last fall/winter and I'd love to show them off here, sometime.
Maybe we can send you pictures of our favorite finds or our favorite pretty pear inspired finds. It's just a thought.
Posted by: @mexicanwoman | May 17, 2010 at 03:32 PM
Hey there! I don't even have a real purpose for my blog, other than to maybe just type when my A.D.D. gets the best of me. I know I don't do it right, but who cares? If someone doesn't like it, they can just not read it.
Posted by: Jen AKA Jupiter | May 17, 2010 at 10:34 PM
Welcome back! I'm excited to read whatever you have to write. :)
Posted by: mo pie | May 17, 2010 at 11:13 PM
Congrats!! Can't wait to see what the future holds!!
Posted by: Ju | May 18, 2010 at 12:29 AM
welcome back!! And yay for doggy pics (and whatever else you'd like to write about!)
Posted by: gina | May 18, 2010 at 08:39 AM
Welcome back! can't wait for whatever springs forth and of course numerous puppy pics
Posted by: Tara Vallance | May 18, 2010 at 02:24 PM
It's been my experience that those who maintain they are not photogenic are the most photogenic. Don't degrade how interesting you are.
Posted by: Moe | May 18, 2010 at 02:24 PM
Welcome back! I can't wait to read whatever you feel like writing about.
Posted by: Heather | May 18, 2010 at 02:26 PM
Whoo! Welcome back. I missed you and kept checking in to see if you would come back early. Glad to see you've decided on a good new way to blog for yourself. And for the record, I love dogs, so doggie picture away!
Posted by: Cassy | May 18, 2010 at 07:15 PM
Welcome Back. I don't care what you write about. I enjoy "seeing" you in your writing. All I know is that you want the Divas to be amazing. BRAVO!!! Clothes, shoes, shopping, make-up etc. All that you bring benefits everyone on a journey to deliciousness. Bring it with you, Babe!!!!!! Thank you!!!
Posted by: Bandit | May 18, 2010 at 09:17 PM
Yay! So happy you're back. Can't wait to read what you have to say. :)
Posted by: Susie | May 21, 2010 at 06:21 AM